Why growing as a writer should be a public experience

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realized something other morning while writing here in the shed: I have been developing my writing life for the last ten years right out in the open. One could say my writing life had its origins when I was a kid delivering newspapers, delivering the news out in the open. But for argument sake, my first book was published in 2009. So, in truth it’s been a decade of exposure. And through it all, I have stood naked for all to see.

This may not be the approach for all writers, but I would strongly encourage any writer to offer their work to the world without hesitation. Don’t wait until it’s “perfect”—there is no perfect.

The meaning of life s to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away. —Pablo Picasso

Seven books are out in the world now. I’m currently working on two novels and have a quirky little memoir that will be out in late 2020. Each time I have published, I have learned much about myself, my writing, whatever ability I have, and how to grow to the next step. I have been unabashedly comfortable with offering my stories when I think it’s time to let them go. Each book at the time of its creation was everything that I believed it could possibly be at that particular moment of my writing life. And publishers, thank you, have believed the same. Unlike many writers who work to develop their skills for many years before publishing anything, I have instead put my work out there as I moved through the stages of growing as a writer. This is not to say that each book has been better than the previous. Not necessarily. But with each book came a new color in the spectrum of my work. I found out something about myself and my writing and it showed. Was it always my best writing? I hoped it was. However, what I am sure of is that it was the best for that moment.

I liken this approach to, let’s say, losing weight or getting in shape. One person might hide away at a spa or camp and drink their smoothies and do their reps and count their calories only to show themselves when they had lost those nagging twenty pounds. Another person, however, might announce to the world that they are on a weight loss program, work out at the public gym and run laps in the neighborhood as everyone watches from their front porches.

Don’t wait until it’s “perfect” — there is no perfect

Here is what it comes down to: As I have learned my craft, I have allowed you to watch it happen. Has that been the best approach? I have no idea. Some writers I know, very good ones, would never do it this way. Not long ago I was part of a panel of authors at a bookstore event and one of the writers, who will go unnamed but certainly one I admire, appeared stunned at my answer to this question from a member of the audience: “When do you know when your book is done, all the drafts finished, and it’s truly ready?” I simply said, “At some point it has to be abandoned. You can edit forever. Adjust forever. But at some moment, it is simply time.” The other author’s answer was quite different. She said her latest novel was exactly where she wanted it to be when she released it.” Mine was, too, I said. The difference is that when I go back to my older books, I see things I want now to change. For her, i assume, that would never happen.

Again, my writing life and its growth along the way has been in full view. Hers, I suspect, has not. Perfectly fine. Good for her. But not for me. And maybe not good for you. Sharing your work is the last part of the artistic equation. Poems locked in a drawer die in the dark. Allow your work to step out on stage and stand in the sun.

Award-winning writer. Author of memoir and fiction. Editor of Medium publication: THE WRITER SHED.

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